Children’s envy is a strong feeling that the child is not able to overcome. This feeling is especially manifested when the child walks the kindergarten. What other children can not add calm to the baby if he does not have this thing. How to overcome a feeling of childish envy?
Inopalities
The baby needs to explain that you cannot have everything that others have. When you go to the store with your child, let him choose the goods for yourself. The kid, showing independence, will be more comfortable to feel like him in a team with a personally selected satchel or phone. The child will not glow a feeling of envy if he does not have the most sophisticated phone or school bag that he chose for himself.
Mix of toys
When the child gives all toys in a row that they stand on the shelves, without even thinking about what he does with them – plays or immediately breaks, your gifts will simply be uninteresting to the baby. If the gift is presented, accompanied by an interesting story, toys acquire a new meaning in the mind of the child. Buying for a girl stroller for dolls, for example, a child will be interested in knowing that her mother also drove her in a similar one, and now she will “like a mother” to roll her toy “daughters” in them. Even at this age, children very much appreciate toys created with their own hands. Show fantasy, and your child will brag to your friends your craft without envy them.
Thematic games and toys
If you see that your baby is looking at the street on children who skate on the rollers. In order not to cause him a feeling of envy, talk to him. Ask the baby if he wants the videos, and if an affirmative answer, make a joint purchase. Before making a purchase, you must agree with the peanut that when buying him videos, he must promise that he will fully master this type of entertainment, and you will help him in this. Let the baby himself choose the color and shape, the number of additional accessories to the rollers. Warn him that as soon as he masters the videos, you will think about giving him a bicycle or skateboard on the same conditions. Thus, you will manage not to cultivate a feeling of envy in the child and at the same time develop him physically.
When buying various items that satisfy the needs of children, remember that the feeling of childish envy at the moment depends on your approach to this. Too pampering or saving on children, you only strengthen a feeling of envy in children. Make joint acquisitions, talk to your child. Explain to him what is bad and what is good and how to behave correctly in a particular situation. Only in this case, your efforts will not be in vain, and the child will cease to envy other children.